If you don't know what Spanx are (and therefore are most likely of the male gender), let me educate you for a moment. Spanx are a line of underwear (bras, slips, tights, and undies) that are designed to squeeze your muffin tops and chub rolls so that they are less... noticeable. The inventor of Spanx spent a mere $5,000 on investment when creating the product and is now the youngest female self-made billionaire in the world. This fact shouldn't come as a surprise to anyone who knows the sneaky tricks and overall popularity of Spanx. Teenagers and aged women alike are drawn to Spanx like Pooh to a honey pot. The question is whether or not these underwear products are anti-progressive in the feminist movement. Orit Avishai seems to think so, and I would like to challenge her stance against Spanx.
As a notably overweight teenage girl, I can confidently say that I am no stranger to seeing "unsightly rolls" when I look in the mirror. It's whatever, really, I'm cool with the extra chub here and there. By no means am I not self conscious about my looks (what girl isn't self conscious, let's be honest) but I have refused to let my appearance determine my own self worth, which is why I can profess my love for shapewear and tell you that this is not a result of my desire to mask my own insecurities. This goes along with my FIRM belief that most girls do not purchase nor wear certain clothing because they think it will attract boys, but rather because it makes them feel confident in their own skin. This is parallel to the use of makeup; most often, a girl wears concealer and eyeliner and blush because it brings out the beauty that is already on her face. Both makeup and shapewear, in my opinion, serve as enhancers of natural beauty, not camouflagers.
People who would challenge the idea of being confident wearing certain clothing for the sake of just being happy are clearly not aware of the line that is drawn between being a certain way for someone else and being a certain way for oneself. You know how I know I'm not gaining confidence from my Spanx through the belief that it will make me more attractive boys? First of all, boys are hardly ever the first thing on my mind. Don't get me wrong, I'm still a teenage girl with an interest in cute boys every once and a while, but what I put on in the morning is for me, not anyone else. Another reason is because I would wear Spanx to bed (ergo in absolute solitude) if it wouldn't feel so strange wearing shaping tights under my pajama pants. In the end, if a girl puts on a pair of Spanx and is able to look in the mirror and say, "Damn, I look good" without even thinking about what a boy will think when he sees such a sight, then for goodness sake, let her be empowered by the way she looks.
Article: http://www.cnn.com/2012/06/08/opinion/avishai-spanx-women/index.html
Article: http://www.cnn.com/2012/06/08/opinion/avishai-spanx-women/index.html
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ReplyDeleteI think you hit some really good points with this and I totally agree with you. The part on wearing things because you want to not because you want to impress someone especially. I think another good example of this is wearing leggings as pants. I don't know your position on this but I have heard different opinions on it.The people who disagree with it say that leggings are not pants and that people only wear them because their tight fit show off their body to impress people. Personally I am all for wearing leggings. I find them extremely comfy and they go well with a lot of things. Lots of opinions out there but I think it fits in with what you're saying here. I think people are quick to judge people for wearing things for the wrong reasons. I'm sure that there are people who do but I like to believe that most people do it for themselves.
I read the beginning of the post and was worried that it was going to be another "they dress that way because it will attract boys which is wrong" kind of post. I really appreciate that you make the point about girls putting on makeup and the like for themselves rather than boys because, believe it or not, it does happen.
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